Enneagram + Mission (How To Live On Mission with Enneagram Insight)

How can Enneagram insight empower you to invest in your neighborhood with more purpose, compassion, and intentionality, helping you live on mission? Building community is a key component of missional living in your neighborhood, and the Enneagram is a wonderful tool to help you sow into relationships with those right around you. Learn more through this collection of guest posts, articles, and blog posts.

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Enneaneighboring: Forming Community in My Neighborhood Out of Different Types of Normal

Aren’t we all just nine diverse kinds of normal, if we look at our neighborhood through the lens of the Enneagram, and as such an array of nine unique aspects of God’s image? Instead of letting our differences disconnect us like scattered pieces of a puzzle, might we see beauty in the puzzle we form when we are together?

| Enneaneighboring Summer Series 2022 |

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Today, we’re talking about you. We’re talking about your fear of not getting it right. Your fear that others will misunderstand your good intentions. Your fear that you’ll never measure up to your own standards. We’re talking about how you’re exhausted from trying so hard to be perfect, but you just can’t let yourself off the hook.

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We’re talking about how you rarely let yourself turn down a request for help, how you’re exhausted but don’t want to admit it, and how you don’t like to talk about your own needs. We’re talking, too, about your desire for others to need you—and how tempting it is to find your worth in what you do.

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We’re talking about how you can get things done faster than the rest of us. We’re talking about your effortless ability to read the room and adjust as needed. We’re also talking about the way you’re on 10 all the time, but the real truth is that you feel small inside.

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You’re not too much for God. He’s not put off by big emotions. He created them, and He feels them too, feels them for you. You don’t have to stuff them down, turn them off, or dismiss them. Your emotions can mirror to others the depth of what God feels for them, and He designed you this way on purpose.

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You don’t have to compete for God’s attention. You don’t have to be louder to be heard, stand out for Him to lean in close, or be in the center of the activity for you to matter. Truth is, you always have God’s utmost attention. He hears every word you say—the ones you thought were drowned out, even the ones still inside your head.

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God wants to listen. He wants to hear you out. He cares about everything—big and small—that matters to you. He won’t walk away. He won’t tell you you’re overreacting. He won’t interrupt you. He will always be there for you. Without fail. Without condition. And when you’re with Him, you’re safe no matter what’s going on all around you.

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Somedays you feel you can’t get away fast enough. Somedays you feel what’s next has got to be better. Sometimes you feel like you’re missing out. Today, this is what I want your heart to hear: Joy is a gift from God, and He gives only good gifts. You are a gift from God, and He gives only good gifts.

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Enneagram eight, God is strong—so you don’t have to be. He’s in control—so you don’t have to be. He is perfect—so you don’t have to be. God’s not wowed by what you can achieve. He’s not impressed with what you’ve done or the title you’ve earned for yourself. But He is moved when you move towards Him.

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God doesn’t look at you last. He doesn’t overlook you. He’s wild about you. You don’t have to be an ounce louder, prettier, or successful to garner His attention. He dotes on you, hangs onto your every word . . . His heart breaks for you when you dismiss the value of your own voice, put yourself down, call insignificant who He created with care.

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The Road Forward to Missional Community

It would be an understatement to say I’m stoked about studying the Enneagram together with our neighbors and friends in our missional community. The potential positive impact on our marriages and our families, our group itself, and all the others we individually interact with is limitless. How perfectly this study fits into the definition my husband and I recently coined to describe the essence of what a missional community is.

How to Grow Friendships with Neighbors Who See the World Differently Than You

Perhaps we’ve spent too much time comparing and criticizing our differences rather than seeing the blessing in them. Too much time looking for commonality as if that alone can bind us together. Too much time arguing about the rightness of our own lens.

Dear Friend, Maybe Today You Need to Know . . .

Dear friend, here is a letter (for each Enneagram type) to you to remind you how you are an essential component of community. Your family, friends, and neighbors need you to be you.