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How to Detach Self-Worth From Your Helpfulness (Enneagram 2s)
You are more than the warm, smiling face greeting us at the door. More than the volunteer we count on for an enthusiastic “yes.” More than the way you welcome both friend and stranger with…
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This Is How Gratitude and Love Languages Saved Our Marriage
When I finally shared my struggling thoughts with him, he received it better than I would have ever imagined because my heart was filled with gratitude toward him rather than accusation.
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How to Stop Nitpicking and Rest in Acceptance (Enneagram 1s)
It’s time for a trade: The intrusive anxiety, the dreaded insufficiency, and the battle in your mind–for acceptance that doesn’t hinge on your perfection.
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How to Make It Impossible to Unsee Other People
She cried when I handed her the Tupperware. “I haven’t slept in days,” she whispered. I didn’t fix her. I didn’t preach. I stood there. I listened. I reminded her she wasn’t alone.
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Surprise! You’re the One God Wants Next to Him
But He keeps right on loving you with every drawn breath. Finds your eyes and says you’re stuck with Him, if you’ll have Him.
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How To Turn “Why Me?!” Questions Into Genuine Gratitude
God didn’t just meet me in my pain—He redeemed it. What was once only trauma became testimony. What was once pain now holds purpose.