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How to Find Yourself Outside What You Can Achieve (Enneagram 3s)
Sometimes it might feel like you’re under pressure to keep winning at life, but the truth is that you’re not letting us down if you slow down. Actually, we hope you take some time to…
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How to Be Thankful When Life Sends a Flood
Who in their right mind would thank God for a flood that destroyed their home and left them homeless?Shockingly . . . this girl.
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How to Detach Self-Worth From Your Helpfulness (Enneagram 2s)
You are more than the warm, smiling face greeting us at the door. More than the volunteer we count on for an enthusiastic “yes.” More than the way you welcome both friend and stranger with…
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This Is How Gratitude and Love Languages Saved Our Marriage
When I finally shared my struggling thoughts with him, he received it better than I would have ever imagined because my heart was filled with gratitude toward him rather than accusation.
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How to Stop Nitpicking and Rest in Acceptance (Enneagram 1s)
It’s time for a trade: The intrusive anxiety, the dreaded insufficiency, and the battle in your mind–for acceptance that doesn’t hinge on your perfection.
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How to Make It Impossible to Unsee Other People
She cried when I handed her the Tupperware. “I haven’t slept in days,” she whispered. I didn’t fix her. I didn’t preach. I stood there. I listened. I reminded her she wasn’t alone.
